Monday, August 30, 2010

CLUTTERED MIND.




Second post here! I wish I could write more often but until im done working, that's probably not possible. This weekend was very exciting for me but at the same time-stressful,irritating, and made me angry.I hadn't seen my husband for a little over a month-So I went to Fort Benning, where he is at currently to visit him for 2 days. My Father in law and my husbands Step Mom decided to tag along.I was fine with that. A LITTLE annoyed but not much. It was also convient I didnt have to pay extra money for a cab, when I got to GA because THEY drove there. They live close enough to do that. I dont. So they picked me up from the airport, the first 10 minutes was great. Hugs, kisses, laughing, got along. It was great. Then the whole 2 hours to the hotel, my father in law-Jeff started bringing up how he feels like I dont care if they visit us or not, telling me I have an attitude, that I stole his "baby boy" from him. So I got pissed. Then any conversation I tried to engage in, they ignored me. Any questions they had about us moving, directions where to go, ANYTHING-was wrong. And when I ended up being right they didnt even acknowledge it.Dustin just has a month left there, and I was really hoping it would just be me going there. Wrong. They're coming again. I understand its his family and any chance they get to see him they want to, but I feel like they're having way to much of a hard time "letting go." They are extremley pushy, and can come off very RUDE.They dont respect me at all. If they didnt treat me like shit, I asbolutley would have no problem seeing them. So the stress of my in laws, are consuming my mind the past day or so. Im still angry at them! The thought of seeing them again in 3 weeks is making me cringe.
This blog is more of a rant tonight!

/End rant.

1 Comments:

At September 2, 2010 at 7:10 AM , Blogger April J Harris said...

Hang in there - it's often really hard work with the in laws to start with. Don't let them spoil the time you have with your husband when he's away so much. At the end of the day, he loves you and your relationship is something totally separate from them :-) Take care.

 

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